Compassion is my Passion

Everyone has their own moment of realization, which defines their purpose in life. Mine was in elementary school, when I went on a field trip to watch the movie, The Lorax. It was about saving the environment and the Lorax stood up for the trees. Thereafter, I began to ponder, “What do I stand up for?” Growing up, my family encouraged me to help the needy by donating to the 2nd Harvest Food Bank, One Warm Coat and other such causes. All this made me realize that my aim should be to speak for the unspoken and channel my time and energy to help society.

Since the age of 7, I have been participating in Bollywood dance, and as I grew older, I got an opportunity to teach dance routines to mentally and physically disabled children. This helps them integrate better with society, and improve their motor, memory, and social skills. When I first started working with handicapped kids, I was a little hesitant, and judgmental, as I never interacted with them before. After I started to get to know them better, I realized that they are human, just like everyone else. From then onward, I made a promise that no matter how different someone looked or acted, I would treat them with respect. I am also a Youth

Board member of Make-A-Wish, I’m raising awareness, and fundraising to fulfill wishes of critically ill children. Both of these community service activities have changed my outlook on life drastically. I am helping those who are unable to live a typical life, however, none of these kids have given up. Despite being handicapped, or ill, they find something that makes them happy and will get them through the day – whether that be dancing, singing, or looking forward to their wish getting fulfilled. I have realized that no one should take things for granted, even simple things like walking or talking. With this lesson in mind, I have started to be more optimistic with everything I do, because I now understand, that not everyone has the opportunity to live their life on their own. Such experiences have made me more compassionate, humble, and thankful for every opportunity I have in life. As author Yasmin Mogahed said, “Compassion is to look beyond your own pain, to see the pain of others,” and that is exactly what I have learned to do, because I know that our problems are very minor compared to the ones of disadvantaged kids.

I am a regular volunteer at the Helping Hands event hosted by the 2nd Harvest Food Bank and Applied Materials, where we pack boxes of food to distribute to the needy. Shockingly, I learned that 1 in 10 people are hungry in Santa Clara county, which is one of the richest places in the world! Consequently, I am extremely thankful for the food I receive, and strive to waste less food because I know that there are starving people in my own community. It also brings me hope to see that there are big corporations, like Applied Materials, who donate millions of dollars to help end hunger.

As a member of the Campbell Youth Commission, I learned that no matter how young

someone is, they can still make a difference. Our youth commission proposed a social host ordinance to reduce underaged drinking and drug abuse. We also raised over $450 for Campbell’s Youth Scholarship Program this year. I am a big proponent of youth leadership, and was even invited to the capital, Sacramento, to testify in favor of Assembly member Evan Low’s bill, ACA 10, to lower the voting age to 17. Today’s youth are tomorrow’s future. We bring fresh, new ideas to the table.

These service activities shape who I am today, and have taught me to be compassionate, thankful for what I have, to be kind to everyone and treat people with respect. Volunteering gives me contentment and satisfaction because seeing a smile on someone’s face is priceless, it makes me realize that the time and effort I put in has a much greater impact – happiness. Service has helped me find myself and answer the question, “What do I stand up for?”. Like the great man Mahatma Gandhi once said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

Can Society Function Without Respect?

An ideal society is a community where its citizens work together for the benefit of everyone. Over the years, many societies have flourished, while others have collapsed because they lacked respect - whether that is for different genders, cultures, authority, or the environment. I firmly believe that respect is the foundation for a successful society, and an absence of respect ensures failure.

As per the Hindu mythology, Lord Vishnu had several incarnations, from early aquatic life to humans, and his latest incarnation, Lord Krishna, was part of a society that was intended to be Utopian. However, this society collapsed for not respecting women. During a gambling game between the two contenders of the throne, the Pandavas and Kauravas, the Pandavas put their wife at stake, and eventually lost her to the Kauravas. Disrespecting their wife by putting her up for gamble and sexually assaulting her were huge mistakes by the Pandavas and the Kauravas respectively. This led to an epic war, known as the Mahabharata, in which, it is claimed that all of mankind was wiped out, and what was believed to be a Utopian society crumbled due to the lack of respect. A more recent example is the Taliban, who disrespected women in Afghanistan and deprived them of education. This led youth activist, Malala Yousafazai, to start a global movement that toppled Afghanistan’s Taliban government, proving that a society without respect is not sustainable.

During the 1900’s, in Europe, different cultures and ideas were not respected and the anti-Semitic leader of the Nazis, Adolf Hitler, strongly believed that Germans were superior, especially to Jews. Hitler wanted an “Aryanization” of Europe, which meant that he wanted to exterminate any group who was not Aryan, or “pure.” Due to this belief, the Nazis tortured Jews and violated their rights. As a primary target, approximately 6 million Jews were brutally slaughtered along with others including the Polish, Gypsies, handicapped, and homosexuals, who Hitler deemed inferior to the Aryans. This disdain of other cultures and violation of basic rights happened under the cover of World War II. In the end, the society that Hitler persisted on creating collapsed because it was a community where different thoughts, beliefs, and cultures were scorned.

An important aspect of a well-functioning society is respect for its institutions and authority. A government is necessary to maintain law and order, however if not everyone abide by the rules, and respect authority, the society could quickly plunge into chaos. Our world is dotted with examples of various terrorist organizations such as Al-Qaeda, Ku Klux Klan (KKK), ISIS, and Boko Haram that have forcefully taken over territories, disrespecting and disregarding the government and its constituents. Instead of following the rules and participating in the electoral process, they chose to go against the government, violate human rights, and spread terror. Many areas that have been invaded by such terrorist groups are now in chaos, and on the path to become failed states. In contrast, the biggest and oldest democracies in the world, India and the United States, both have thriving societies because they respect the institution.

Environment is considered an insignificant factor of society, and people tend not to take care of it. However, the outcome of disrespecting nature is evident. People pollute the environment by indiscriminately burning fossil fuels and emitting harmful gases from manufacturing activities. Air pollution has a direct impact on human life, as it is a leading cause of asthma and kills one person every 2 minutes. Continued disrespect of nature is causing global warming, rising sea levels, acid rains, and more frequent and intense hurricanes, which all is putting a lot of stress on society.

As society continues to evolve, it is imperative that we have respect for everyone and everything. In the past, advocates such a Rosa Parks, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., and others have insisted on showing respect for all sections of the society, and have positively contributed towards it. Nowadays, there are supporters of campaigns such as #MeToo, and #BlackLivesMatter that are standing up against injustice, and demanding the respect they deserve. Females who have been sexually assaulted are telling their stories and condemning society for not respecting them. A similar cause is behind the #BlackLivesMatter campaign, where supporters are striving to not only raise awareness about police brutality against people of color, but to also demand respect for black people in general.

Clearly, respect is an absolute for a functioning society. As Albert Einstein once said, “Any society that does not insist upon respect for all life must necessarily decay.”